Saturday, October 10, 2009

Url and housing changes

Hey followers, I just want to let you know that I changed the url of my blog. It was previously and now it is I'd rather have a cooler name, but I already changed it and it was hard to find something available :P

Anyway, I'm sorry that I did that, but I chose to do that instead of making my blog private. I had foolishly given my blog link to Josh in hopes that he would see how much I was hurting and so that he could remember the good times we had, but I was wrong. I had a fight with him last night. It turns out that the root of the reason he is leaving me is because his GF hates me for what I did. Apparently he'd ditch his friend just to please his GF. So I can't even attempt to be friends with him if she won't let him. He's blind, insecure, and homophobic. I never saw this coming, but now I think it was for the best.

Today I responded to an ad for a shared home on craigslist. It was only 600/month with all utilies included and I got my own bedroom, bathroom, and living area. The kitchen was also very nice. Only thing is, I'm sharing a home with a 60 year old stranger. At first I was really excited that I found a good deal, I even gave him a check for next months rent already. But came back home and called my mom to tell her the good news and she wasn't very happy, she was worried in fact. I felt I had made a rash decision and I felt I truly couldn't be comfortable in a shared home, so I called him and told him I was withdrawing and asked him if I could come pick up my check. He said yeah, that I can, so I will be picking it up tomorrow at noon. I really felt bad for doing that, but i just need to stick it out and find a single apartment somewhere.

Tomorrow Anthony is coming over at 2 to start our movie marathon. He asked me what kind of beer I liked so that he could bring it over, lol. I really think he just wants to loosen me up, but it's cool I probably could use it and I know we aren't going to home base, it wouldn't happen this suddenly, but maybe second or third ;) I went out and bought 2 six packs, one of Jacks Pumpkin Spice and the other is Hooker Oktoberfest. Hooker is a Connecticut only beer that is pretty much amazing. I went to their distillery once, they were having an all you can drink "taste test" night, so I got to taste a wide variety of their flavors, and they were all awesome.

So tonight I am cleaning up my room and doing laundry to get ready for tomorrow. I hope you all are having a great weekend, and sorry again for changing my url.



  1. Good luck on the housing search. What's so bad about living with a 60 year old stranger? I cant imagine that you would be in danger. You're 23, remember?

    Also, old guys are often hilarious.

  2. It's not so much that he's 60, the problem is I don't know him well enough to live with him.

  3. i understand where you're coming from with the appartment. hope you find somewhere suitable soon, but they're all gonna be a compromise of one kind or another.

    maybe Josh's gf hates you because she feels insecure. it's irrelevant now of course but irritating that she should react that way and have such a hold on him.

    best of luck with Anthony. sounds like you guys are gonna have some fun, and hopefully a cool relationship out of it too.

    don't apologise on my account about the blog btw. i was only a bit confused. it only took 10 seconds to update the RSS reader and i think i can spare you that! LOL

    have a great day Shane, and thanks for the notification mail.


  4. Good luck with the apartment, I know from experience finding something decent and affordable around here is a real challenge, hope you work it out soon.

  5. Sorry to hear about the whole Josh thing. It's kind of douche-y to do that to a friend just to appease a girlfriend. :-/

    Anyway, I hope you have fun with Anthony! I'm sure we all expect a blog post out of it. ;-)

    It's been a while since I've had beer. I should go out and get some . . . except I have exams all this coming week. T.T